Monday, September 23, 2013
Of Bond, Bonding and Binding: A Chemical-Psychological-Philosophical Take
Coming to this part, we come to that part which forms the crux of our life and living: We are never apart from beings and things, from our surroundings. Whether we bond consciously or not, does not change this fact. Though, yes, conscious and resonant ones, makes us thrive, drive towards soaring heights, while the dissonant ones drive us mad, make us strive to break away from the bonding, experiencing the same as binding.
Yet, all is a part of the grand designing of life: even the dissonant ones are in consonance with the purpose of life, as through them, too, we are led to realize where we stand, and why we stand where we stand, as understanding of selves improve. The very purpose of bonding and relationships, is so, as ultimate is the destination of self-realization.
Bonding is for stability, and in its absence, the bond breaks, as breaking-up leads to stability. What we share, grows, and with it, grow, we too. But, whether we grow or shrivel (growth of the negative) is determined by that “what” which we share. If it is love, which is always accompanied by its natural allies—faith, understanding, respect, gratitude—then its love’s pinnacle that is realized, causing us to realize the fullness of our being, growing incessantly, infinitely, the bliss experienced, manifesting stability, and spreading the same, all-around.
As the energy forms we are, the aura of our being, is propagated through our being.
Thus, when we share hatred, it is just the opposite that is manifested. The strife, that we strive to survive, is what thrives, as that is what we create through our sharing of hatred which grows to destructive proportions.
Natural order always comes into effect and the bond breaks, at least at the gross level, with the fundamental emotion—love—un-realized.
It is all about sharing, and that is what the organic compounds follow, with, in their case, the bonding element being the fundamental particle, electron. And there is beauty inherent: They come close to overlap, yet, till an optimum distance, which leads to the maximum level of bonding. Beyond this distance, the attractive forces that bind (in a bonding which is not a binding), are overpowered by the repulsive forces, and the bond breaks, to honor the individual stabilities of the bonding components, which is then found to be more, than in the bonded state. The space required to be bridged, and come close for bonding, is bridged, while the space required to be given, to honor the individuality of one another, too, is, leading to the spectacle of stability of the bond, rendering both more stable, with their growth enhanced.
Thus, the infinite intelligence leads them to follow the principle of, “This far and no further!”
Does it ring familiar?
Thursday, September 19, 2013
The entire creation is thriving with inherent intelligence, thus arises inventions in the wake of the perceived necessity. Whatever happens happens, not without a reason. If there is an effect, there has to be a cause, even if invisible. Invisibility is not a proof of nonexistence of proof.
The intelligence, thriving, we bond, with curiosity, curiosity and human beings drawn like a bee is to honey, as a natural phenomenon, and in a resonant moment of our bonding with life all-around, we receive the answers, the reasons, as revelations, insights, many of which go on to become inventions, and many provide explanations to those hitherto thought inexplicable. At times, in ways arcane, yet primal, we are drawn instinctively to them, just as we are drawn to different type of relationships, as we are repelled too, by some!
Life is all about bonding, as is about relationships, with the former responsible for the latter. The resonant ones are loved, as result out of love; while the dissonant are hated, as hatred is basis of these relationships and hatred is the result.
We strive for bonds which gives us a sense of solace, and thus we bond, as bonds, essentially, are meant to provide stability—all arising out of the said intelligence, which knows of the requirements and the ways to its fulfillment. Ask the chemical compounds, how and why they form, and they too would answer the same, only in their case, the essential component involved in the bonding is one of the fundamental particles: Electrons. And in our case, it is the fundamental feeling: love. As we have different type of bonds, with different degrees of strengths, so have chemical compounds (basically these are of three types). Each bond-type is dependent upon the need it fulfills thus, which isn’t possible through any other bonding types.
Though, in the context of the species that we are, organic, only one of these we correspond to, with respect to our bonding and relationships, and when we do respond to in the corresponding manner, in totality, the essence of bonding is realized: resonance, leading to stability, manifesting growth...
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Before is begun, what the title suggests (does it suggest, anything, by the way, besides provoking thoughts and raising the eyebrows?!) the person for whom this series (hopefully) gets initiated, must be acknowledged: Taposhi Samanta (Facebook), a brilliant writer, a philosopher, and of course a dear friend. And then, there is another respected friend, Dr. Hari Kumar Parameshwar (Facebook and author of Many Paths, Many Answers), who, too, plays a part in the same: both playing the role of catalysts, in unique ways.
Thus, gets started something I had been intending to share: the insights that have led to one of my books, a reality for me, but yet to be for the world, on how life, chemistry and psychology are merged, with the common bond of philosophy. The vision, these insights generated, is a desire that all be led to the clarity that this merger leads to, in the context of the bigger picture of life. Hence, the book. And with the same intent, look forward to share, even if in bits and pieces, tidbits from the same, till it becomes an objectified reality. I know not, now, how frequent these postings would be, yet, intentions are true to be frequent. And of course, an interest aroused in you all, would definitely fan the fire of the intention.
So, shall we begin? I hear the voice within, saying, "Yes," and take it as that of the collective, of you all, as we are all a part of the collective, here, to realize, and as we do, share, what we realize, thereby furthering our path, individually, as well as collectively...
Taposhi began a very pertinent discussion, and in resonance with the book, about "bonding" and "binding," and to begin with, as the first part, here is shared the felt-to-be-fit for and as the first part (after all overdoses never help!):
"Chemistry is not only about equations." (True, for those studying the subject, and for those these equations are their personal Waterloos, this declaration might be hard to digest, and fit to be rejected with disdain. But then, we are always at our mercy, to choose, what we choose. So, I would simply like to share my findings...and hope that they would be of help.)
"Chemistry is for all, and life is chemistry (one of the infinite things life is). Chemistry is about bonding, about relationships, as is life. Binding, chemistry, in equations, is confining its universal applicability, as any form of binding in life, too, is detrimental to growth. Bonding is not a binding, but a resonance, allowing growth."
Look forward to your postings, the queries and comments, and to the next post...
Wish you all a very happy bonding with your own selves!